Come eat your cake!

Dear friends,

Does your cake recipe include: A sprinkle of growing up? A dash of soul-searching? Toppings both sweet and sour? Space for a surprise center? Layers more than the sum of their weight in chocolate grams?

My teacher, Deborah Ross, at the Center for Journal Therapy shared with me that if you are just writing down your deepest thoughts and feelings, but not making meaning of them, it “can be like gathering the ingredients but not baking the cake.”

And when we are intentional about using a storytelling structure when we journal, it can help bring coherence to the fragments. For trauma survivors, being able to tell one’s story in a coherent way has been linked to health gains because it “may adaptively transform and organize memory.”

When we journal our stories, whether that means we use more details, develop relationships between characters, or use more insight words, rest assured that physical and mental benefits should follow. The findings from a 2010 study conducted at University at Albany (SUNY) suggest that both emotional expression and narrative structure may be key elements linked to expressive writing mental health benefits, including a decrease in symptoms of stress and depression.

Join me for the next circle at my place

Do you tell others that you could write a book from all your stories? Do you want to track the themes, movement, and energy of your life? Do you prefer guidance and the support of a writing circle?

Join me on Saturday, June 14 from 1 – 3, for an in-person journaling workshop to learn the stepping-stones journaling tool. The tool will help you write scenes from your personal story, practice self-compassion as you witness how you became the person you are today, and allow you to write from the body, mind, and spirit.

The workshop includes: guided entrance meditations, reflective writing to synthesize insights, and time to share. The workshop is $55 suggested (with sliding scale options). Cake and tea served. Bring a first-time friend for free. Make a “pay from the heart” gift to register for June workshop.